It has been dragging on for about 8 weeks which is since the time we broke up. Today I noticed she BURNED a gift I gave to her (which took me 5 days to make) and posted pictures of them on her blog. My ex saw me hands in hands with my girlfriend and she wasn't **** at all. Thread Tools. Some days I really wish I had someone to talk to because I am tired of crying and missing a man who I know isn’t really thinking about me. I did not believe he gave her up and still refused to give him the cash. I’ve just held my head high and keep on smiling. We were together for 3 1/2 years. We just broke up but my ex-girlfriend seems so happy without me. Gia Khanh. This is an innocent reason to text an ex that doesn’t always have a deeper meaning. And for the fun of it or something. At the time, she said she wanted to take a “break” because she no longer felt a “spark” for me. My bestie sent me this – The Ex Factor Guide. Its hurts so much to think that I made him so unhappy. Some reason she is well loved. When you wanna get back with her and actually tell her, an ex girlfriend that has moved on from you will tell you that she is tired. He always used to tell me we should have gone out more and now he is with his new girlfriend he seems to be having a wonderful life. My ex I broke up over two years ago because she cheated. After my girlfriend of a year and half left I am left devastated. In January she got transferred over to my department. I thought that my ex fiance would be **** at me but she was relieved as if she had wanted this break up. It's time to put this issue to bed once and for all. After the third time I heard he is still seeing her, he denied it and said people were trying to break us up. They have only been married 6 months and already taking separate vacations! I refused and went NC straight away. I ended with my ex girlfriend prior to my feelings with my coworker. My ex Narc was parading a new love around our area looking all happy to make me jealous when I refused him a large amount of money. So if having a new relationship is what makes your ex happy and focusing on your career is what’s making you happy, stick with your career and quit mimicking what your ex is up to. “Let’s say our ex didn’t treat you well, it can almost feel like it’s not fair that they found happiness first,” McCance says. But I changed my ways for her. She was happy. Then a year later again. Whenever I run into him (we have the same circle of friends), he goes out of his way to convince me that he’s redeemed himself and his life is an assembly of highlights. We work for this same company. No, you do not need to be friends. If you're wondering "why does my ex seem so happy without me?" View Profile View Forum Posts Join Date Jul 2016 Posts 4. I also texted an ex happy birthday after about 10 months of no contact. She doesn't believe me when I say I can make her happy again and that I changed. I haven’t done anything or retaliated on social media. I talked to my ex last week and when i called he was asleep apparantly he was up late the night before. That I still cared. Your Ex Texts You Often. I didn't want to … When he dumped me he was so emotionless and heartless. Ex girlfriend says she is happy in her life and doesn't want to speak to me ever again after 3 weeks. My ex is just happy and I’m miserable!“ The answer is in the last statement – “happy and I’m miserable.” When dumpers are happy, they are guilt-ridden and unbelievably happy with their breakup decisions. Even his new girlfriend he was cheating on my with belives him that I am crazy and jealous he chose her over me. Ex girlfriend says she is happy in her life and doesn't want to speak to me ever again after 3 weeks. I love her so much and am completely lost without her I have no motivation to do anything. Ex is happy without me. The guys hit on her a lot. I stupidly drunk texed him saying "WHATS UP BABAY HOW YOU DOING" and i dont think he was flattered. We had few conversations from time to time but she is always going out with persons from the department but not really me. 10 Definite Signs Your Ex Wants You Back (But Won’t Admit It) Selma June March 5, 2020. Then, last week, one of my friends told me that my cheating ex-boyfriend is having a baby with his new girlfriend and she’s already six months pregnant (it was unplanned, apparently). We’ve been going no contact ever since (it’s been 6 months since we last talked) But now she called me yesterday two times in a row. 1. Ok here’s my story… My girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago. I asked him if he still work and he said yes.He's been at his job for a year. There’s nothing, and I mean NOTHING better than this for making sure you two end up back together. The top guys buy her lunch and treats her. You will see that she really is and that this is not some kind of game anymore. We were a good team for almost 4 years. 4. If your ex girlfriend seems to be happy with her new guy, that doesn’t mean you cannot get her to re-connect with her original feelings of love for you. From time to time, if I see something that reminds me of an inside joke with my ex, I might snap a picture and send it to them. She says she's 10x happier without me and that is killing me inside. Since the BU I have spoken to her two times, mainly because she still owes me money. My ex has a new girlfriend, and they seem to be in love. Ive seen him on Facebook etc with his new girlfriend and he looks completely happy. I know he wasn't alone on his vacation! She even posted on her blog today: THAT AWESOME MOMENT WHEN YOU REALISE YOU … Thread: We just broke up but my ex-girlfriend seems so happy without me. Cut off contact . I adored her, my son adored her and her family. my ex looks so happy without me. #4 Keep the ex’s flaws in mind. He came over to my house to tell me that he didn’t think things would work out between us. My ex broke up with me last month after only dating for one month. Then we quit since he quit sending it back to me. I was in the process allowing myself some time for me. I am a single father, when my ex and I became serious my son was just 1 years old. Hello everyone my name is Susan from UK i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr eduka who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for six months, His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married with two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank … But many people still ask, "Should I wish my ex a happy birthday?" I tried to warn her but she thinks she is different, something special, better than all the rest and can heal him. she acts like this because she feels the Signs of An Unhealthy Relationship with Boyfriend.This is when you know the relationship is over for good. He seems more responsible and cautios than when we first met. We broke up last week,so about three days ago, she wrote on Facebook saying: "Having my ex-boyfriend out of my life feels like a new start and I'm happy" Then two days ago, she wrote this on Facebook: "Why couldn't my ex just keep his story straight?" My Ex Is Happy Without Me : What Should I Do?So many people think my ex is happy without me I should move on and our relationship didn’t mean anything. She posted on Facebook how she is completely happy about her decision and is happy in general. Today, when I checked his Instagram (ugh … I know, I know), I saw he bought a huge house with her. It shocked me so much I sort of sat there with my mouth open for about ten minutes before I could even respond. I was devastated. Its as if I never knew him. Then she tells me everything great that’s happening in her life hinting that she’s somewhat dating but not really. By LeeB, 11 years ago on Getting Back. For Emily M., 34, an editor in New York who spoke on condition that only first name and last initial be used, Thanksgiving was the holiday trigger that made her reach out to an ex-boyfriend. My ex-Narc married one of the women he had waiting in the wings. 33,181 33.2K. Hello everyone, My girlfriend dumped me on the 28th of July and told me we could still be friends. This may already be something you’ve done when you were still trying to get over the breakup, but keeping that mental tally does come in handy in situations like this. The situation I find myself in is almost surreal. What you need to do is stay in touch with her by any means possible (e.g. He had a bad relationship 4 years before dating me, making him insecure and distrusting of women. It's pretty normal for exes to stay friends even after a breakup these days. It’s the best revenge lol. I disrespected her wishes in the relationship so she got depressed and now she doesn't want me back ever. Do this at least for a little while. then that's what Clay Andrews is going to discuss in this video. My ex avoids me when he/she sees me and doesn’t show any signs of fear, anxiety, depression or anything like that. Lol It’s just annoying because he got everything he wanted yet he’s still not happy and has to bring me down with all my ex friends who took his side :( it’s just cruel and unfair. He even told me she was his meal ticket home. I have never told my story seeing how everyone thinks my ex so wonderful and I was so lucky to have him. Anyways, she seems SO HAPPY without me. For me it was just to let him know that I didn't forget about him. Relationship. I tried my best to be understanding but it started taking a toll on our relationship. Show Printable Version; Email this Page… 07-26-2016, 02:08 PM #1. He is a film director and makes shitloads of money. A few months after we got engaged she told me, I went out with an ex I dated only for a “minute” I have feelings for him. Texting your ex is a bad idea, in general. I thought it was a little weird as we were on a break from contact anyway. Question: My ex-girlfriend says it’s over and there is no chance for us but she is still calling me and says things like it’s a shame it turned out like this and I saw you today and you looked sad. But if your ex gets into a new relationship and immediately starts telling you how awesome it is and how happy they are, it's a definite sign that your ex misses you and cares about you enough to regret the breakup. Opposite. 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